Lights on!

On Thurs, we had parent-teacher conferences at night, so we had a babysitter coming. So in the morning I was preparing stuff for her and it took us longer to get out of the house and I missed my train. So on Friday and this morning, JJ woke James up at about 5:40 am. He does this by turning on all the lights. This morning he got James up, and James was crying, not at all ready to wake up. He was taking him downstairs when I got out of the shower. I turned the light off. JJ shouted at me, "what are you doing?! Turn that light back on!" I said, "it's 5:40, you don't need to turn on every light, and you don't need to wake James up yet. And please stop shouting at me at 5:40 am." He shouted, "you are always late! You have time issues!" I said, "JJ, all I did was turn out a light. Stop shouting." When I got downstairs he was just sitting there with James. He had not even showered yet himself. We ended up leaving the house at the normal time anyway. 

Yesterday we did the taxes. I know he didn't want me to be involved, but I sat with him anyway. He said, "we're all done...we owe $1100." We scrolled through the list and I said, "what about the child care credit?" He said, "no... That's nothing." I said , "let's just look at it." We did and it end up giving us a large credit--$1200. Instead of having to pay tax, we are getting a small refund. After we finished, I took my paperwork and put it in a folder. He came in the other room and said, "why did you take all the papers? I'm keeping them." I said, "I want to keep copies of my papers. I'll make copies for you." He said, in a very irritated tone, "well, you took one of my papers." I said, "I don't think so but take a look in my folder." He didn't find it. It was on the floor of his office. He said, "well, you knocked it on the floor." He did apologize for blaming me.