Lights on again

JJ turns on the hallway light and bedroom light when he is trying to wake the kids up. I prefer to gently pick them up from bed and start getting them dressed in the dark. I also don't like to have the lights on when I get out of the shower because I think people can see in the windows. However, he feels quit strongly about the lights. Yesterday, he turned them on, got James dressed, and was carrying him downstairs. I came out of the bathroom and turned the hallway light off. He shouted, "do you want us to never get out of this house? Turn that light back on!" I said, "I don't want the light on when I'm coming out of the bathroom with no clothes. And anyway, Merryn is already awake, and if she wasn't I would wake her up. Also you don't need to shout at me first thing in the morning."