What?

I'm not sure I'd call what we do "fighting"...because fighting requires participation. I would definitely call it conflict. In any case, there was never a point where going to Toms River for JJ's birthday was in doubt. I was talking with him at several points to plan it. "Should we go on Weds or Thurs?" "What time would you like to go? If you want to go later, I'll take the kids to music class..." But there was never, ever a point where I said or implied that we wouldn't go..,I was totally in support of going the whole time.